"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A **** blocking (DJ?)..

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Well, I don't know if he is a DJ or not but he seems to know woman fairly well. Neg hits, not being clingy, ****y/funny.. and this guy is hitting on the girl I have been talking to myself. She flirts with both of us, but he deffinately gets more of the physical side of things.. like they are always really touchy. I always make sure to act like I don't care when I see it, but TBH it is starting to piss me off. So basically don't know what to do. He is better looking. Everyone says don't give up, you know more, you have the skills.. blah blah blah. But let's face it.. a GOOD LUCKING dj is going to win over an average looking DJ. They both are in the same game.. play it it the same way.. but the guy with the looks has the touch, and an edge.. even if it is just slight. Right now I can only hope that he ****s up... but I think she is too much infatuated with him at the moment not to notice/care. What should I do?

*Sigh*
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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no, the guy with the looks has, well, the looks, and if you really get into the game (you only have 11 posts dude, you dont know what your doing yet) as long as that guy is not a member of one of the communities (i think there are 2 or 3?) you can take her from him
 
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do not get stick to her.. when she comes to you be as cool as possible.. and if she selects him, let her go hell..
 
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(an easy quick answer for the short term, but not the overall mature best route of DJ'ism)

Convince your self (mind) that your better than him.

Easy as that.

It will come across in your energy, words, body-language, way of interacting w. her/him, etc.... and she'll see it. Soon as she sees it... You've won, he loses.

BUT......... she'll test you on it, just to make sure. Which is no big deal... the mere fact that she's testing you, will show you that you've already cinched the deal... thus you can pass the test with flying colors.

You feel me!? lol

Now when you go to sleep tonight, and everynight hereafter... just imagine yourself better than this cat. Dominate him pychologically (not tearing him down, but going beyond his level so to speak, thus dominating). You'll know through the feelings of your body, when you've convinced yourself. It all happens "inside", before it happens "outside." Now go pimp yourself into the direction you want.

After that... read the DJ bible, and SuaveOn' Playa!
 
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