"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A **** blocking (DJ?)..

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Well, I don't know if he is a DJ or not but he seems to know woman fairly well. Neg hits, not being clingy, ****y/funny.. and this guy is hitting on the girl I have been talking to myself. She flirts with both of us, but he deffinately gets more of the physical side of things.. like they are always really touchy. I always make sure to act like I don't care when I see it, but TBH it is starting to piss me off. So basically don't know what to do. He is better looking. Everyone says don't give up, you know more, you have the skills.. blah blah blah. But let's face it.. a GOOD LUCKING dj is going to win over an average looking DJ. They both are in the same game.. play it it the same way.. but the guy with the looks has the touch, and an edge.. even if it is just slight. Right now I can only hope that he ****s up... but I think she is too much infatuated with him at the moment not to notice/care. What should I do?

*Sigh*
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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no, the guy with the looks has, well, the looks, and if you really get into the game (you only have 11 posts dude, you dont know what your doing yet) as long as that guy is not a member of one of the communities (i think there are 2 or 3?) you can take her from him
 
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do not get stick to her.. when she comes to you be as cool as possible.. and if she selects him, let her go hell..
 
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(an easy quick answer for the short term, but not the overall mature best route of DJ'ism)

Convince your self (mind) that your better than him.

Easy as that.

It will come across in your energy, words, body-language, way of interacting w. her/him, etc.... and she'll see it. Soon as she sees it... You've won, he loses.

BUT......... she'll test you on it, just to make sure. Which is no big deal... the mere fact that she's testing you, will show you that you've already cinched the deal... thus you can pass the test with flying colors.

You feel me!? lol

Now when you go to sleep tonight, and everynight hereafter... just imagine yourself better than this cat. Dominate him pychologically (not tearing him down, but going beyond his level so to speak, thus dominating). You'll know through the feelings of your body, when you've convinced yourself. It all happens "inside", before it happens "outside." Now go pimp yourself into the direction you want.

After that... read the DJ bible, and SuaveOn' Playa!
 
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