"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A bit of chat drama!

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Juanito said:
theres nothing to be confused about amigo

just ignore the past and live the present

if you really like that brasiliana then jus meet up with her :rock:
Gracias, amigo. Es lo que quiero hacer, solo espero que no me dichò una mentira... and at the end this is just a game. Don't take the fun away from love... :rock:

Oh, and thank you Aequitas. Your answer did really make my day. I need to be optimist if I want to meet her again, there's no doubt about it. Wonderful nickname, my friend. For you non-italian people, Aequitas means 'equality' in ancient latin. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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