"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A Bit of a Situation

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I have this issue I'm dealing with, here's the situation:

I met this girl 2 years ago, before I started doing the college course I'm doing now, but it turned out she was going to go to the same university as I was and that she was going to do the same course.

So that next year we saw each other at these courses and got to know each other well. At that point we kind of liked each other and we were both looking for a place to live and since living in an apartment alone was too expensive for the both of us and continuing living with the parents not an option, we decided to start sharing an appartment.

All was fine in the first year, but now she is beginning to annoy me, I appreciate and like her still, but she has become more of a lazy and complaining b!tch lately.

Basically, I wouldn't mind leaving her and finding a place of my own.

The problem is we both moved into this new town together and just about everyone I know, we know together.

Also we have an agreement with the landlord of a two months notice to move out.

We decided to share the books for college to reduce costs and we actually bought some things together for the appartment like a tv/washing machine and some other stuff.

Also since rent is too expensive to pay alone, so I would at least temporarily have to move back with my parents for a while and start travelling 2 hours a day just to get to college.

Just now I am beginning to realize that I have made myself too dependent on her and on this relationship by sharing all this stuff.

I know what I have to do, but these drawbacks, as mentioned above, pretty much suck and will cost me.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Always have an out, that's what I say. :)

She's probably too comfortable, start staying out a little later with a buddy :).
 

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The problem is we both moved into this new town together and just about everyone I know, we know together.

We decided to share the books for college to reduce costs and we actually bought some things together for the appartment like a tv/washing machine and some other stuff.
These are the consequences of moving in with a woman you weren't marrying. If you're tired of her 5hit, then you'll have no problem giving up the tv, the washing machine, and any other investments you've made with her. It's a small price to pay to learn a life lesson.

Get your own place next time, and you won't have to put up with anybody's 5hit.
 

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What college course is it that you're taking? Creative Writing?

Bought a washing machine for an apartment?

Troll, get your facts straight. Your troll is too full of idiocy to be believable; it's a little over the top.

I wish I had a TV/Washing machine - I could watch movies while doing the laundry. Sweet! Does the screen get all shakey on the spin cycle?
 
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Another 1st post troll. I've got your number now pal.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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