"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A bit of a problem here, this broad wont stop texting while we're together

MyTeamSupreme

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So its like this, she works and goes to school so we dont get to see each other often. Twice a week and no more than an hour for each meeting. She isn't my girl but i've already sexed her and have gotten sucked on a few occasions. The problem I have with this chick is she takes time out of our conversation to text message other people. The first time I asked her who it was she told me it was her "sister", the second time I leaned over to see and she turned the phone towards her so i couldnt see. I grabbed her hand and looked and saw it was a dude and said "its her sisters boyfriend and he keeps asking me questions about her", LOL shes also most likely a *****mouthed liar.

Here's my problem. She can talk to whoever she wants since shes not my woman, I just rather that she did it on her own time and not while we're together. I need some don juan advice on how to handle such a situation. My first reaction was to give her a backhand slap to the mouth and take the phone away but its not 1950 and im sure such a thing wont go over well with the police. I expressed that i didnt like at and got an excuse of why she had to text. Toss me some ideas on how to handle this sperm bucket.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jophil28

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MyTeamSupreme said:
Toss me some ideas on how to handle this sperm bucket.
Find yourself another receptacle for your unwanted sperm.
 

Maximus Rex

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MyTeamSupreme said:
Here's my problem. She can talk to whoever she wants since shes not my woman,
Pay close attention to what you just said. Now apply that philosphy accordingly. Next time you're out, use her as a wingwoman to sarge other chicks and impliment a freeze out.
 

vatoloco

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MyTeamSupreme said:
I expressed that i didnt like at and got an excuse of why she had to text.
Her IL in texting is higher than her IL in you. For some women, depending on their ILs and level of AW, you will never be more important than their phone. You asked. She refused. Next.


Toss me some ideas on how to handle this sperm bucket.
Find a new one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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vatoloco

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Expanded version:

Her Interest Level in texting is higher than her Interest Level in you. [In other words, to her, spending time on her phone is more important than spending time with you.] For some women, depending on their Interest Levels and level of Attention Whore[ness], you will never be more important than their phone. [That is, you will not be able to replace and/or provide the levels of attention they so desperately need (both in real life and online) and therefore you will be relegated to 3rd, 4th or 5th place in their lives.]

;)
 

NeverFear

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Yep, its an issue of control, and an issue of high interest level.

Next time SHE CALLS YOU, tell her, in a low key voice, that youre "not into"
women who bring along a cell phone on a date.


"Leave it at home" or dont call me. I dont like wasting my time"

Then the balls in her court.

Dont waste another second until she apologizes, proposes to take YOU
to dinner, and leaves it at home.

Otherwise, NEXT
 
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