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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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A bit of a predicament (spelling?)

face2003

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Alright, well, first off, (wow a lot of commas) about 1 month ago I saw this girl in my psychology class that I thought I would of liked to go to the Homecoming dance with. So, I did the obvious, asked her to the Homecoming dance. She, of course, said yes to this question.

Well, after I had asked her this, I have hung out with her a few times and have come to relize that I don't like this what so ever. She is very annoying, her personality sucks some majorly huge A$$, and she is very quiet (she is annoying when she does talk though).

Also, about 2 weeks ago I was in a play for my drama class and I saw this girl in there. I wanted to get to know her a bit better, so I asked her out. You know the answer to that one too...YES! So we went out and had some fun together. Now I would really like to ask this girl to the Homecoming dance, but the annoying beyotch is in the way.

How could I go about asking the second girl to the Homecoming dance and let the first down?
 

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PiHiPlaya

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just get into a fight with the first girl and have her dump you. Like be lewd or AFC. As soon as she kicks your ass to the curb girl 2 is free and clear!
 

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Ahaha, well that was my first idea. I tryed it and....well...lets just say that I finally know what cement tastes like.

I have just thought about it and I have figured out what to do...so thank you for the advice that did not exist.
 

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Awesome that u solved the problem already.

What I would do is polietely tell the first girl to go away. Not in those words, though. Also, try not to go too strong too fast. Keep ur options open.

^-^ U never know when a better angel mite smile ur way.

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