"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A Bit of a Challenge.

IronRice

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Alright. Well there is this one chick. Yeah.. I like her. Well you know.. I do my little thing where I kinda give her hints I like her.. by like flirting and tellin her how beautiful she is.

Well shes kinda catchin' on. I talked to her about the boyfriends in her life.. and she told me there were none and that shes been lookin'. I thought it was pretty awesome and I flirted even harder. BUT where my problem lies is gettin' her to flirt back with me. Usually, this is a easy task for me. But now, with this girl, its harder.

Can anyone give me tips or just a lil bit of help? I'd Appreciate it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stop trying so hard and take away the attention you give to her.
 

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Sorry, I forgot to add that she loves attention from guys.. I learned that by reading her myspace. It clean states that .. underlined and bold..lol.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by IronRice
Sorry, I forgot to add that she loves attention from guys.. I learned that by reading her myspace. It clean states that .. underlined and bold..lol.
There you have it. Talk to her, then take away the attention she expects and give it to another girl so she can see.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i dont like stalkers
hmmm i believe ive read that in the bible.....
 
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