"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright. Well there is this one chick. Yeah.. I like her. Well you know.. I do my little thing where I kinda give her hints I like her.. by like flirting and tellin her how beautiful she is.

Well shes kinda catchin' on. I talked to her about the boyfriends in her life.. and she told me there were none and that shes been lookin'. I thought it was pretty awesome and I flirted even harder. BUT where my problem lies is gettin' her to flirt back with me. Usually, this is a easy task for me. But now, with this girl, its harder.

Can anyone give me tips or just a lil bit of help? I'd Appreciate it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop trying so hard and take away the attention you give to her.
 
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Sorry, I forgot to add that she loves attention from guys.. I learned that by reading her myspace. It clean states that .. underlined and bold..lol.
 
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Originally posted by IronRice
Sorry, I forgot to add that she loves attention from guys.. I learned that by reading her myspace. It clean states that .. underlined and bold..lol.
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There you have it. Talk to her, then take away the attention she expects and give it to another girl so she can see.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i dont like stalkers
hmmm i believe ive read that in the bible.....
 
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