"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A bit intimidated by popularity.

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thatdude156

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How do i overcome this silly fear? I know i have nothing to be afraid of. I personally believe i am better than most.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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At least at my school, the popular kids are don't function well out of there "safe" environment. (Yes, Mind I took your idea! I thought it fit) Also they haven't done anything to make me believe they are better then me. So why treat them like it?
If you were in a room full of people who all thought they were all exactly equals with you, and you believed it as well, it would be very easy to talk with them because you wouldn't be intimidated. They would have fun with you.
Other people feed off your energy, if you think they are better then you, then they are going to act it.
 
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I agree with Nite in that they are only "poplular" if you believe so in your head. You'll see that when you leave high school and you see those same people again, they'll know who you are but for one reason or another, you guys did'nt speak much in school.

One of the keys to getting over this is to internalize the fact that this is your own impression of them. Put them in a different setting or in a different school and I guarantee you that they are not the popular kids. They're regular people with regular problems like everybody else.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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