thatdude156
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How do i overcome this silly fear? I know i have nothing to be afraid of. I personally believe i am better than most.
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A bit intimidated by popularity.
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Dreamin'_Dylan
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I'm not sure what you mean. Are you intimidated by being popular, or the popularity of others?
thatdude156
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the popularity of others.
At least at my school, the popular kids are don't function well out of there "safe" environment. (Yes, Mind I took your idea! I thought it fit) Also they haven't done anything to make me believe they are better then me. So why treat them like it?
If you were in a room full of people who all thought they were all exactly equals with you, and you believed it as well, it would be very easy to talk with them because you wouldn't be intimidated. They would have fun with you.
Other people feed off your energy, if you think they are better then you, then they are going to act it.
If you were in a room full of people who all thought they were all exactly equals with you, and you believed it as well, it would be very easy to talk with them because you wouldn't be intimidated. They would have fun with you.
Other people feed off your energy, if you think they are better then you, then they are going to act it.
I agree with Nite in that they are only "poplular" if you believe so in your head. You'll see that when you leave high school and you see those same people again, they'll know who you are but for one reason or another, you guys did'nt speak much in school.
One of the keys to getting over this is to internalize the fact that this is your own impression of them. Put them in a different setting or in a different school and I guarantee you that they are not the popular kids. They're regular people with regular problems like everybody else.
One of the keys to getting over this is to internalize the fact that this is your own impression of them. Put them in a different setting or in a different school and I guarantee you that they are not the popular kids. They're regular people with regular problems like everybody else.