"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A beautiful speech about humanity

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Falcon

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Great video... was definitely before my time, yet the same principles and issues are still very relevant today.
 

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Dude that guy is so full of ****.

Love won't save us.

The cold calculus of someone like Dr. House will ease more human suffering than some feel-good bull****. No amount of giving or caring will overcome the realities of Nature. Love won't feed the world: money & trade will.

It's not a lack of 'brother love' that's made the world a ****ty place, it's a lack of people understanding the reality that Darwin, Hobbes, Rand, Hayek, and others like them who have been made villians were on the right side of history while the poets and the so-called intellectuals were on the wrong side of history.
 

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I disagree he is full of ****. I don't see the cold-calculus of House and Chaplain's speech are mutally excusive. He seem to speak more than some kind of "hippie love" too, did he even mention love? Love don't feed hunger, but he is not talking about world hunger, he is talking about society and how we can be so cold to each other. People who are afraid to live, care for others, and live like "robots" instead of thinking for themselves. Isn't that alot of what posters on this site complain about people?

Granted his "greed" part could be taken as such, then again, corporations have made decisions for greater profits at the expense of people. Greed have hurt others. This is not to say money and trade is not key to solving problems, but to put effort to brighten other people's day could make life better for all. As for the soldiers part, he is refering to how soldiers mindlessly fight for bad causes.

Perhaps not everything is correct, but I would not say he full of it.
 

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Luthor Rex said:
Dude that guy is so full of ****.

Love won't save us.

The cold calculus of someone like Dr. House will ease more human suffering than some feel-good bull****. No amount of giving or caring will overcome the realities of Nature. Love won't feed the world: money & trade will.

It's not a lack of 'brother love' that's made the world a ****ty place, it's a lack of people understanding the reality that Darwin, Hobbes, Rand, Hayek, and others like them who have been made villians were on the right side of history while the poets and the so-called intellectuals were on the wrong side of history.
I'm curious as to whom exactly are you referring to when you mention "poets and the so-intellectuals"?

Honestly, I felt the whole video was a battle cry against legal plunder and really was less about love.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It actually was a pretty truthful speech about how to make the world a better place.

I went in thinking it was just going to be some sappy bullsh!t but it was alright.
 
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You have to put it in the context of the times - he took on the Hitlerian image but gave the opposite message of hate - hate makes men kill!!

This message applies today as we head into fascism and are told to hate whoever those who control the mass media tells us to!! Hate breeds death!
 
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