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Master Don Juan
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/884723/charlie_chaplain_amazing_speech/
by Charlie Chaplin as you know who!
by Charlie Chaplin as you know who!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm curious as to whom exactly are you referring to when you mention "poets and the so-intellectuals"?Luthor Rex said:Dude that guy is so full of ****.
Love won't save us.
The cold calculus of someone like Dr. House will ease more human suffering than some feel-good bull****. No amount of giving or caring will overcome the realities of Nature. Love won't feed the world: money & trade will.
It's not a lack of 'brother love' that's made the world a ****ty place, it's a lack of people understanding the reality that Darwin, Hobbes, Rand, Hayek, and others like them who have been made villians were on the right side of history while the poets and the so-called intellectuals were on the wrong side of history.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.