"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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a 9 that Loves Attention

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im working on this one girl, shes very pretty and i would consider her a 9,

im liking everything about her so FAR, but i can easily tell that she Loves the attention ppl give her,

we planned a date for tuesday, and when it came to that day, I was phoning her to see if she needed a ride, we talked for 1 min then she said she would call me right back which she didnt.. so i didnt get to worked up about it,

it has been a week i think that i havnt talked to her.

im a lil stumped on how to proceed with this, her best friend is also a snobby biiizztch! that doesnt reallly like me

i Kinda understand the part where u shouldnt give her all the attention which i havnt,

what else can I do or should be doing
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sexy_kuta said:
im working on this one girl, shes very pretty and i would consider her a 9,

im liking everything about her so FAR, but i can easily tell that she Loves the attention ppl give her,

we planned a date for tuesday, and when it came to that day, I was phoning her to see if she needed a ride, we talked for 1 min then she said she would call me right back which she didnt.. so i didnt get to worked up about it,

it has been a week i think that i havnt talked to her.

im a lil stumped on how to proceed with this, her best friend is also a snobby biiizztch! that doesnt reallly like me

i Kinda understand the part where u shouldnt give her all the attention which i havnt,

what else can I do or should be doing

You seem pretty mature for a 16 year old and because of that I'll give you some advice..:D


Well there's not much you should/can do. She flaked so that's a strike against her. You already know she's an attention w-hore, so you can't really expect anything solid from that type of girl. :nono: She seems like a hit it and quit it type of girl.

The part that worries me about your post is where you say "your liking everything about her so far." Your letting her looks blind you!! So instead of seeing if she has integrity and a good personality, your seeing if her t*tties are looking good in the shirt she's wearing.

Anyways enough with the lecture...if she tries to apologize, hear her out and tell her its not a big deal. Since she craves attention she will come back to sux you dry in one form or another. Meaning she might not even apologize, but rather come flirt with you again. If you want to get her head spinning and have her chase you, flirt with her if she flirts with you, tell her you'll call her to take her out NOT EVEN MENTIONING HOW SHE FLAKED BEFORE, then don't call her!!! The next time she sees you and asks you why you didn't call say, "Oh, I forgot." :up:

As far as expecting anything real from this, I highly doubt it bro. She is a self absorbed chick. She's got a whole flock of chumps chasing after her and she'll just group you with the rest.




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Pimp-sicle said:
You seem pretty mature for a 16 year old and because of that I'll give you some advice..:D


Well there's not much you should/can do. She flaked so that's a strike against her. You already know she's an attention w-hore, so you can't really expect anything solid from that type of girl. :nono: She seems like a hit it and quit it type of girl.

The part that worries me about your post is where you say "your liking everything about her so far." Your letting her looks blind you!! So instead of seeing if she has integrity and a good personality, your seeing if her t*tties are looking good in the shirt she's wearing.

Anyways enough with the lecture...if she tries to apologize, hear her out and tell her its not a big deal. Since she craves attention she will come back to sux you dry in one form or another. Meaning she might not even apologize, but rather come flirt with you again. If you want to get her head spinning and have her chase you, flirt with her if she flirts with you, tell her you'll call her to take her out NOT EVEN MENTIONING HOW SHE FLAKED BEFORE, then don't call her!!! The next time she sees you and asks you why you didn't call say, "Oh, I forgot." :up:

As far as expecting anything real from this, I highly doubt it bro. She is a self absorbed chick. She's got a whole flock of chumps chasing after her and she'll just group you with the rest.




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hhaa thanks man, oh yea dont worry.. I know what you mean, when i said "im liking everything about her so far" i ment.. all the signs I got from her, i seen her at a social and she wasnt grinding up on boys like a slut would do.. she was dancing with her girls. thats a good sign.. I also obbserved How she dressed.. she has style and class. the way she talks.. SHes friendly
but Of course im fully aware that she could slip...

So i should call her and act like nothinng happen... flirt with her and then later on this week call her and tell her i will pick her up and take her out but dont tell her the set date, then wait until she calls back..
Sounds good thanks bro
 

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! I never said to call her!!! I said NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER IF she flirts with you, then flirt back without mentioning anything about her flaking before. If things go well with the flirting, then ask her to hangout again and tell her you'll call her. But just leave her high and dry!! Don't call!! This will get her chasing you but like I said don't expect much from her.

The whole leaving her high and dry strategy was just a way for you to even the score and leave her. Bottom line is for you to NEXT HER!!

She disrespected your time, which tells you that your not that important to her if at all.



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aight I'll try it

:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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UPDATE:

shes taking too long, im not interested anymore

i got 4 new numbers in the last 3 days so im on a fresh start :)

what a turn off i tell ya,
 
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