"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a 9 that Loves Attention

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im working on this one girl, shes very pretty and i would consider her a 9,

im liking everything about her so FAR, but i can easily tell that she Loves the attention ppl give her,

we planned a date for tuesday, and when it came to that day, I was phoning her to see if she needed a ride, we talked for 1 min then she said she would call me right back which she didnt.. so i didnt get to worked up about it,

it has been a week i think that i havnt talked to her.

im a lil stumped on how to proceed with this, her best friend is also a snobby biiizztch! that doesnt reallly like me

i Kinda understand the part where u shouldnt give her all the attention which i havnt,

what else can I do or should be doing
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexy_kuta said:
im working on this one girl, shes very pretty and i would consider her a 9,

im liking everything about her so FAR, but i can easily tell that she Loves the attention ppl give her,

we planned a date for tuesday, and when it came to that day, I was phoning her to see if she needed a ride, we talked for 1 min then she said she would call me right back which she didnt.. so i didnt get to worked up about it,

it has been a week i think that i havnt talked to her.

im a lil stumped on how to proceed with this, her best friend is also a snobby biiizztch! that doesnt reallly like me

i Kinda understand the part where u shouldnt give her all the attention which i havnt,

what else can I do or should be doing

You seem pretty mature for a 16 year old and because of that I'll give you some advice..:D


Well there's not much you should/can do. She flaked so that's a strike against her. You already know she's an attention w-hore, so you can't really expect anything solid from that type of girl. :nono: She seems like a hit it and quit it type of girl.

The part that worries me about your post is where you say "your liking everything about her so far." Your letting her looks blind you!! So instead of seeing if she has integrity and a good personality, your seeing if her t*tties are looking good in the shirt she's wearing.

Anyways enough with the lecture...if she tries to apologize, hear her out and tell her its not a big deal. Since she craves attention she will come back to sux you dry in one form or another. Meaning she might not even apologize, but rather come flirt with you again. If you want to get her head spinning and have her chase you, flirt with her if she flirts with you, tell her you'll call her to take her out NOT EVEN MENTIONING HOW SHE FLAKED BEFORE, then don't call her!!! The next time she sees you and asks you why you didn't call say, "Oh, I forgot." :up:

As far as expecting anything real from this, I highly doubt it bro. She is a self absorbed chick. She's got a whole flock of chumps chasing after her and she'll just group you with the rest.




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Pimp-sicle said:
You seem pretty mature for a 16 year old and because of that I'll give you some advice..:D


Well there's not much you should/can do. She flaked so that's a strike against her. You already know she's an attention w-hore, so you can't really expect anything solid from that type of girl. :nono: She seems like a hit it and quit it type of girl.

The part that worries me about your post is where you say "your liking everything about her so far." Your letting her looks blind you!! So instead of seeing if she has integrity and a good personality, your seeing if her t*tties are looking good in the shirt she's wearing.

Anyways enough with the lecture...if she tries to apologize, hear her out and tell her its not a big deal. Since she craves attention she will come back to sux you dry in one form or another. Meaning she might not even apologize, but rather come flirt with you again. If you want to get her head spinning and have her chase you, flirt with her if she flirts with you, tell her you'll call her to take her out NOT EVEN MENTIONING HOW SHE FLAKED BEFORE, then don't call her!!! The next time she sees you and asks you why you didn't call say, "Oh, I forgot." :up:

As far as expecting anything real from this, I highly doubt it bro. She is a self absorbed chick. She's got a whole flock of chumps chasing after her and she'll just group you with the rest.




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hhaa thanks man, oh yea dont worry.. I know what you mean, when i said "im liking everything about her so far" i ment.. all the signs I got from her, i seen her at a social and she wasnt grinding up on boys like a slut would do.. she was dancing with her girls. thats a good sign.. I also obbserved How she dressed.. she has style and class. the way she talks.. SHes friendly
but Of course im fully aware that she could slip...

So i should call her and act like nothinng happen... flirt with her and then later on this week call her and tell her i will pick her up and take her out but dont tell her the set date, then wait until she calls back..
Sounds good thanks bro
 

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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! I never said to call her!!! I said NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER IF she flirts with you, then flirt back without mentioning anything about her flaking before. If things go well with the flirting, then ask her to hangout again and tell her you'll call her. But just leave her high and dry!! Don't call!! This will get her chasing you but like I said don't expect much from her.

The whole leaving her high and dry strategy was just a way for you to even the score and leave her. Bottom line is for you to NEXT HER!!

She disrespected your time, which tells you that your not that important to her if at all.



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aight I'll try it

:)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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UPDATE:

shes taking too long, im not interested anymore

i got 4 new numbers in the last 3 days so im on a fresh start :)

what a turn off i tell ya,
 
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