"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A 22 year old girl told me something that made me feel really crappy.

Forty0ztoFreedom

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I thought the same thing one time. I was sure I was terrible and that would be the end of it, and on top of that I was wasted . . but I saw the girl about a month later and she was still all over me. Unfortunately I wasn't really into her, but there ya go. Its not a 100% end-all be-all deal breaker.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ATX1001

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I had a massive sex drive in my early 20's. I went out with a girl who had a similar sex drive and we f*cked a minimum of 3 times per day, every day for the first 3 months. Oftentimes even more (record was 6). At the end of 3 months, the both of us got kinda bored doing it 3 times per day, so we dropped back to 2, then 1. We both did get a lot better from it.

Anyway, she's full of ****. 5-7 times per day during her period? yeah right..
 

Mantis Toboggan

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TKool said:
I have this mental complex that a girl will know I don't have experience and she won't stick around because to give me experience.
Well it's a stupid mental complex to have. Get over it. It's obvious that whining about it isn't helping.
 

radiodude

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This girl is either being humorous and you're missing it, or she's just so full of it that she can't even tell reality from make-believe. Worst part is, you actually believed it.

15,000- 20,000 times in 7 years? LOL!!!

....No...sorry, didn't happen.

There are people who have awesome skills, are very attractive and who have a very active social life who don't even get in the 1000 range in that amount of time.

Please quit believing everything someone tells you.
 
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