"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A 21+ Forum?

Tyler

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First off, let me say that I have no intention of insulting or offending anyone with this thread. Read with that in mind.

I've read through a few threads today, and I've noticed quite a few posts which, in my opinion, provide advice which shows a distinct lack of understanding of the subject matter. More specifically, what I am seeing is people under 21 (either stated or implied) providing advice on "adult" (21+) situations. Sometimes it can be a hassle when there are a lot of these posts on a thread.

This by no means applies to everyone under 21, or even the majority. I've read some informative and enlightening posts from the under 21 crowd. But I think that I'm not alone in preferring advice from people speaking from experience.

So, the idea I propose is this: If there is a high school forum, why not a 21+ forum as well?

I'd love to hear any thoughts on this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Suggestions and Feedback.
Hey, I can say that now...Suggestions and Feedback. :D
 

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
I agree. If we tried to implement this, we'd see a marked spike in posters who go from 17 to 21 in a matter of days.
 

Chewy Bagel

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I would like to see an additional forum for ages 21+ as well. I've considered suggesting the same thing within the past week, but never did.

There are way too many high school guys in here who think they know what's up with the dating world of people who are 21+ (yes, it is different guys).
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NBA23

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You know that is just not fair at all because I'm not 21.

I'm for an owning and managing your very own Las Vegas Strip Club Forum.
 
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