"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A 21+ Forum?

Tyler

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First off, let me say that I have no intention of insulting or offending anyone with this thread. Read with that in mind.

I've read through a few threads today, and I've noticed quite a few posts which, in my opinion, provide advice which shows a distinct lack of understanding of the subject matter. More specifically, what I am seeing is people under 21 (either stated or implied) providing advice on "adult" (21+) situations. Sometimes it can be a hassle when there are a lot of these posts on a thread.

This by no means applies to everyone under 21, or even the majority. I've read some informative and enlightening posts from the under 21 crowd. But I think that I'm not alone in preferring advice from people speaking from experience.

So, the idea I propose is this: If there is a high school forum, why not a 21+ forum as well?

I'd love to hear any thoughts on this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Suggestions and Feedback.
Hey, I can say that now...Suggestions and Feedback. :D
 

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
I agree. If we tried to implement this, we'd see a marked spike in posters who go from 17 to 21 in a matter of days.
 

Chewy Bagel

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I would like to see an additional forum for ages 21+ as well. I've considered suggesting the same thing within the past week, but never did.

There are way too many high school guys in here who think they know what's up with the dating world of people who are 21+ (yes, it is different guys).
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You know that is just not fair at all because I'm not 21.

I'm for an owning and managing your very own Las Vegas Strip Club Forum.
 
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