"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A 21+ Forum?

Tyler

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First off, let me say that I have no intention of insulting or offending anyone with this thread. Read with that in mind.

I've read through a few threads today, and I've noticed quite a few posts which, in my opinion, provide advice which shows a distinct lack of understanding of the subject matter. More specifically, what I am seeing is people under 21 (either stated or implied) providing advice on "adult" (21+) situations. Sometimes it can be a hassle when there are a lot of these posts on a thread.

This by no means applies to everyone under 21, or even the majority. I've read some informative and enlightening posts from the under 21 crowd. But I think that I'm not alone in preferring advice from people speaking from experience.

So, the idea I propose is this: If there is a high school forum, why not a 21+ forum as well?

I'd love to hear any thoughts on this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by GigaloDJ
Suggestions and Feedback.
Hey, I can say that now...Suggestions and Feedback. :D
 

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin
Too many forums as it is . . . plus there's no way of knowing somebody's actual age.
I agree. If we tried to implement this, we'd see a marked spike in posters who go from 17 to 21 in a matter of days.
 

Chewy Bagel

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I would like to see an additional forum for ages 21+ as well. I've considered suggesting the same thing within the past week, but never did.

There are way too many high school guys in here who think they know what's up with the dating world of people who are 21+ (yes, it is different guys).
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NBA23

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You know that is just not fair at all because I'm not 21.

I'm for an owning and managing your very own Las Vegas Strip Club Forum.
 
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