"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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90% Uni guys are TOTAL AFCs - Plus a little tip for everyone at university

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I never really realised this fact until this week. I just had my uni freshers week, with all the parties that intails, and then continued the party this week, right up to tonight. I have to say that the number of guys who have acted like complete AFCs for the whole time is totally amazing!! Practically every guy seems completely clueless when it comes to seducing women, they dont play hard to get in the slightest.. and in fact 2 hours ago i was talking to a guy who just followed this girl around ALL night staring at her ass.. he never even made a proper move on her, he just looked and occasiaonally talked, then got her phone number.

For all you guys at uni, it seems to me that its gonna be really easy to get a girl, since this kinda thing has been going on so regularly every night for 2 weeks. TO be honest, and heres a little tip, dont get the number of a girl u like or give her urs if ur in uni - where I am its so easy to bump into anyone, and it happens all the time, so youre guaranteed to see the girl again on campus in the week and u dont have to look desperate - Its a WIN:WIN situation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alphathree

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Yeah, guys are total dorks. And they RESIST it when you try to help them, too!

No wonder I've been having a field day.

One guy I know writes a column about how he "farms" his women instead of "hunting" them, referring to his inability to pick up a woman from a club.

More accurately, he just doesn't have any women at all, and is somehow trying to convince himself that he is "farming" his female friends.

As David DeAngelo would say, it sounds like he's growing some kind of fungus.

EDIT: It sounds like you'd do well at the Charisma Sciences Institute. They have really refined game over there including the realization that bullsh~t "cold" approaches are totally unneeded and that C&F is too harsh and won't really get you any lays. But hey, no one around here believes that.
 

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i'm looking forward to uni :D
 

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I agree on both accounts. Most guys I see at uni are desperate, in for the kill types, who get blown out all the time.

And you are right, when you see women regularly on campus, you can take your time and build familiarity.
 

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hell yeah! haha, i realized this in my first year. I was still somewhat of a AFC back then, but even I could tell that some of these guys were way below me. And the girls know it, too! I have a lot of friends who are always complaining about how there are no guys at uni who are clued in when in comes to seducing women.

Oh, and Alphathree, I think that we have conclusively proved that you have no idea what you are talking about. C+F DOES work (in moderate, sparse doses) and cold approaches DO get you laid.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by rickyoj105
and heres a little tip, dont get the number of a girl u like or give her urs if ur in uni - where I am its so easy to bump into anyone, and it happens all the time, so youre guaranteed to see the girl again on campus in the week and u dont have to look desperate - Its a WIN:WIN situation.
If you aren't desparate, you won't look desparate. I don't think this is that great of a tip (sorry, I know all my posts are pretty negative but it's a lot of blind attempting to lead the blind in here). I've put the mack on 20 girls or more that I see on a daily basis. If you don't call her, big frickin' deal. What do you have to lose.
 

Alphathree

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Originally posted by lebRambo
hell yeah! haha, i realized this in my first year. I was still somewhat of a AFC back then, but even I could tell that some of these guys were way below me. And the girls know it, too! I have a lot of friends who are always complaining about how there are no guys at uni who are clued in when in comes to seducing women.

Oh, and Alphathree, I think that we have conclusively proved that you have no idea what you are talking about. C+F DOES work (in moderate, sparse doses) and cold approaches DO get you laid.
I wasn't suggesting otherwise... there's more than one way to skin a cat.

My beliefs are more accurately stated as: "Although you might do cold approaches and use C&F lines and get laid, these things involve a lot more effort than you _actually need_ to get women with very high success rates. They are a stepping stone to natural game, and may not even be needed as that."

I guess it's tempting to do a bunch of cold approaches, do a bunch of lines, and just keep doing it until you get "good" at it and get laid a lot.

But naturals don't do this. They have these things called friends and social circles in which they--wait for it--"naturally" attract women, no lines, no approahes.

Both the natural and the cold approacher get laid, but I would argue that the natural feels a lot better about his daily life, has more meaningful relationships, and spends less time/energy on women.

If you disagree with that and can "conclusively prove" that it's wrong, then I guess I have no idea what I'm talking about.

Anyway, I'm not on here trying to tell people that I know what I'm talking about. I'm on here trying to help people where ever I think I have something to say that might clarify something for someone else.
 

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oh okay. i guess i just didn't understand what you meant.
 
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