"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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9 year old writes a book on dating.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heh. . There are a few things in the DJ bible about acting like you did as a kid, when it comes to girls. I wonder if this thing doesn't actually have something useful.
 
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Meh. Do I really need dating advice from someone who hasn't even grown his first pube?:rolleyes:
 
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Love this comment!

TylerMorris wrote:

I'm 10 years old and I’ve seen enough TV shows and movies to know that if you want to be a romance guy, you’re supposed to take your girlfriend out to an expensive restaurant, where weird guys walk around the tables playing violins while you’re trying to eat. Women actually like this, so whatever you do, don’t punch the violin guys. Instead, you should hold your girlfriend’s hand across the table, look deep into her eyes and say romance things. It’s probably best to wait until the violin guys are playing near the people sitting at the next table, so they won’t overhear you and laugh.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I saw this kid on TV. Most of us were like that at one time, but you grow up and start developing fears of what people think and changing and thinking more and a lot of confidence and not caring slips away
 
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mpimpin said:
I saw this kid on TV. Most of us were like that at one time, but you grow up and start developing fears of what people think and changing and thinking more and a lot of confidence and not caring slips away
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Unfortunately enough, that is the sad truth... :(
 
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