"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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80 Percent of Woman want a CRUEL NEANDERTHAL. So I Seek the 20 PERCENT.

NeverFear

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I think most guys, when they find out, that women basically LIKE to be mistreated (for psychological "dominance" reasons...they want a dominant male.....who happens to be cruel.....which gives them the "chemistry" they want....despite any logical reasoning )..

At first, I admit I was learning how to be mean. Now, I'm an athlete so im already COMPETITIVE. But being an A hole is quite another story.

But i've arrived at a better reality.

I AVOID the eighty percent. That's right.

I want no part of the typical female.

Its probably ONE IN TEN that I'd go out with.

The problem is FINDING the non F 'd up women who actually appreciate a strong, but not cruel man.

A few thoughts on finding a good one:

1. They're instant GIVERS, uncomplicated, and non dramatic. When you see the drama...forget it.

2. Tend to be better educated but not ALWAYS.

3. Respond to MASCULINITY but not CRUELTY.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oxide

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join the club man..... this is the same "looking for the best" concept ;)
 

Spike_the_cowboy

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80% are shallow, 19% are crazy. As for the other 1% ?...


Thats about how it goes.

:cool:
 

sux2bu

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I can see right now that this thread is going to turn into another "jerk" vs. "nice guy" debate. Yes, the thought of any girl that would want to be with someone that is going to push their head through a wall in a fit of rage needs serious therapy.
 

DJ Alejandro

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itz called 'high standards'. you get better quality that way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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captn caveman

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Go and try saying I love you, want to spend the rest of my life with you..

to the best you found..

on the night you found her...

.....

Though, masvculinity vs cruelty is a correct concept..
 
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