"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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80 Percent of Woman want a CRUEL NEANDERTHAL. So I Seek the 20 PERCENT.

NeverFear

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I think most guys, when they find out, that women basically LIKE to be mistreated (for psychological "dominance" reasons...they want a dominant male.....who happens to be cruel.....which gives them the "chemistry" they want....despite any logical reasoning )..

At first, I admit I was learning how to be mean. Now, I'm an athlete so im already COMPETITIVE. But being an A hole is quite another story.

But i've arrived at a better reality.

I AVOID the eighty percent. That's right.

I want no part of the typical female.

Its probably ONE IN TEN that I'd go out with.

The problem is FINDING the non F 'd up women who actually appreciate a strong, but not cruel man.

A few thoughts on finding a good one:

1. They're instant GIVERS, uncomplicated, and non dramatic. When you see the drama...forget it.

2. Tend to be better educated but not ALWAYS.

3. Respond to MASCULINITY but not CRUELTY.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oxide

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join the club man..... this is the same "looking for the best" concept ;)
 

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80% are shallow, 19% are crazy. As for the other 1% ?...


Thats about how it goes.

:cool:
 

sux2bu

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I can see right now that this thread is going to turn into another "jerk" vs. "nice guy" debate. Yes, the thought of any girl that would want to be with someone that is going to push their head through a wall in a fit of rage needs serious therapy.
 

DJ Alejandro

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itz called 'high standards'. you get better quality that way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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captn caveman

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Go and try saying I love you, want to spend the rest of my life with you..

to the best you found..

on the night you found her...

.....

Though, masvculinity vs cruelty is a correct concept..
 
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