"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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8 hour sarge

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Tommorow Im doing an 8 hour sarge around College Campuses.

There is 4 colleges all within 15 min of each other. Im gonna spend an hour at each hot spot. Campus centers, rec. centers. libraries etc. I go to one of the colleges.


The goals are I will not leave until I have

50 approaches
20 #'s
at least 10 rejections

Purpose:

To have dates for during the week.I have no class tommorow so I have nothing to do during the day.


I figure if I get 20 #'s. That will lead to about 5 dates. One for every day of the week ! Pretty good for 8 hours of work.


I also have a goal to get rejected at least 10x in order to build a callouse to not give a ****.

I will only approach HB 7 or above also.



For the first 2 hours I am going to be experimenting with different approaches to see what works and to get over my fears.

Once I have that under my belt I will be good to go.



I will keep doing this every week , until I have more girls then I can handle.

I will post progress and results tommorow.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oh yea I will be sarging alone. And switching hot spot every hour as to not appear like a stalker or anything.


I will have books with me and some props that I will be experimenting with.
 
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That's ridiculously awesome. I think more of us need to do a "sarge" like this.

I know I plan to!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Im gonna do some laundry in the morning and then shower and get all fresh.


Im thinking of scaling it back to 30 approaches as 50 approaches in 8 hours would not feasible.
 
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Arh man! You got me hyped fer nuffin'.

I haven't slept in 2 days. My bed reeks of UG4 B.O.. Erh.

Bu-bump this.
 
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where is the report? I'm still waiting... was this just all talk?
 
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Yeah, what happened?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
Some people need to get a life.

...seriously
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says the girl on the forum for guys. whats the problem? not getting attention in real life so you have to make sure you have the monopoly on guys by visiting a guy forum? :rolleyes:
 
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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by lebRambo
says the girl on the forum for guys. whats the problem? not getting attention in real life so you have to make sure you have the monopoly on guys by visiting a guy forum? :rolleyes:
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...seriously
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What to do when you go to the local comm. college and the girls you're sarging go to the state Uni. ... Yesterday I got 3 numbers and one of the girls was txting me asking me where I went to school...I replied "I go to college" and she said "I figured, but which one?" to which I didnt reply...It really feels like a shame to say that you attend that comm college around here but I don't have a choice.

I realize that if the girl is interested in you she wouldn't care, but often when girls ask me where I go to school and I reply , they kinda seem dissapointed and IL drops ..
 
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Uhh, what happened to this sarge? Don't tell me the man chickened out!

I'll just take an optimistic thought and assume that he's just too busy nailing all the broads he met that he's going on break for a while!
 
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