"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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8 hour sarge

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Tommorow Im doing an 8 hour sarge around College Campuses.

There is 4 colleges all within 15 min of each other. Im gonna spend an hour at each hot spot. Campus centers, rec. centers. libraries etc. I go to one of the colleges.


The goals are I will not leave until I have

50 approaches
20 #'s
at least 10 rejections

Purpose:

To have dates for during the week.I have no class tommorow so I have nothing to do during the day.


I figure if I get 20 #'s. That will lead to about 5 dates. One for every day of the week ! Pretty good for 8 hours of work.


I also have a goal to get rejected at least 10x in order to build a callouse to not give a ****.

I will only approach HB 7 or above also.



For the first 2 hours I am going to be experimenting with different approaches to see what works and to get over my fears.

Once I have that under my belt I will be good to go.



I will keep doing this every week , until I have more girls then I can handle.

I will post progress and results tommorow.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oh yea I will be sarging alone. And switching hot spot every hour as to not appear like a stalker or anything.


I will have books with me and some props that I will be experimenting with.
 
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That's ridiculously awesome. I think more of us need to do a "sarge" like this.

I know I plan to!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im gonna do some laundry in the morning and then shower and get all fresh.


Im thinking of scaling it back to 30 approaches as 50 approaches in 8 hours would not feasible.
 
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Arh man! You got me hyped fer nuffin'.

I haven't slept in 2 days. My bed reeks of UG4 B.O.. Erh.

Bu-bump this.
 
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where is the report? I'm still waiting... was this just all talk?
 
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Yeah, what happened?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Warrior Princess
Some people need to get a life.

...seriously
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says the girl on the forum for guys. whats the problem? not getting attention in real life so you have to make sure you have the monopoly on guys by visiting a guy forum? :rolleyes:
 
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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by lebRambo
says the girl on the forum for guys. whats the problem? not getting attention in real life so you have to make sure you have the monopoly on guys by visiting a guy forum? :rolleyes:
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...seriously
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What to do when you go to the local comm. college and the girls you're sarging go to the state Uni. ... Yesterday I got 3 numbers and one of the girls was txting me asking me where I went to school...I replied "I go to college" and she said "I figured, but which one?" to which I didnt reply...It really feels like a shame to say that you attend that comm college around here but I don't have a choice.

I realize that if the girl is interested in you she wouldn't care, but often when girls ask me where I go to school and I reply , they kinda seem dissapointed and IL drops ..
 
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Uhh, what happened to this sarge? Don't tell me the man chickened out!

I'll just take an optimistic thought and assume that he's just too busy nailing all the broads he met that he's going on break for a while!
 
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