Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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6ft. red headed bi-polar chick!

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ive been getting to know this girl (HB 8.5) and i think shes pretty cool. anyway, prom is coming up in 4 weeks and this girl i know is 6ft. tall, has red hair (more like red/brown), and bipolar! my friends all make fun of me for hanging out with her but i really want to ask her to prom. They say that it would be ridiculous caus im only 5'5 and they think shes a weirdo. im dead set on asking her anyway but id like to know wat u guys think.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mpimpin

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Michele said:
i have a feeling she's not an "hb 8.5"
LMFAO!
To each their own
 

Silverant

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6 ft redhead hb8.5? what's her body like? cute face?

Idk man, how serious is the OCD? It might be a drag to be with her when she's depressed. OCD is crazy.
 
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i don't lie when i say shes an HB8.5. many people agree with me, its just that her personality is a little off the radar compared with other people and thats why alot of people call her weird. im fine with it though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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comic_relief

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If she is bipolar, then run the FVCK away as quickly as possible

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Red07

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comic_relief said:
If she is bipolar, then run the FVCK away as quickly as possible

comic_relief

I'd go with that advice ^ :)

There are a lot more less complicated girls out there.. ;)
 
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