"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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6ft. red headed bi-polar chick!

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ive been getting to know this girl (HB 8.5) and i think shes pretty cool. anyway, prom is coming up in 4 weeks and this girl i know is 6ft. tall, has red hair (more like red/brown), and bipolar! my friends all make fun of me for hanging out with her but i really want to ask her to prom. They say that it would be ridiculous caus im only 5'5 and they think shes a weirdo. im dead set on asking her anyway but id like to know wat u guys think.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mpimpin

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Michele said:
i have a feeling she's not an "hb 8.5"
LMFAO!
To each their own
 

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6 ft redhead hb8.5? what's her body like? cute face?

Idk man, how serious is the OCD? It might be a drag to be with her when she's depressed. OCD is crazy.
 
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i don't lie when i say shes an HB8.5. many people agree with me, its just that her personality is a little off the radar compared with other people and thats why alot of people call her weird. im fine with it though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she is bipolar, then run the FVCK away as quickly as possible

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comic_relief said:
If she is bipolar, then run the FVCK away as quickly as possible

comic_relief

I'd go with that advice ^ :)

There are a lot more less complicated girls out there.. ;)
 
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