ok, so heres the story.... ive been with this girl since i was a sophmore in high school, 6 years later im almost through with college. When we first met, everything was great, then slowly the jealousy appeared, constant nagging, and attention fiending. Ive been with her for 6 years now, but im getting so irate that sometimes i feel like im gonna snap her neck! lol, i know i gotta be a man to get rid of her, but shes psycho! Sometimes when we have an argument, she'll show up the next day crying to my parents or sit in front of my house for like hours, sh!ts creeps me out.... Now that i think of it, i shoulda seen this coming... any advice?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
6 years, tired, and tryin to break up!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Uh yeah, if you want to dump her, DUMP HER. If not now, when?
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Yeah you gotta get rid of this one. Crying at your parents house when you're not even there? That's whack... or whack-O as it would go. You should break up with her for her own sanities sake. I think the 6 years has gotten her into some serious co depenency issues. Best to end it quickly, and painlessly. You might have to make your point more clear if she tries to come back, which I'd wager she will try to do.
Be strong, do what's right.
Be strong, do what's right.
Dump her, then get a restraining order if she keeps coming around.
With psychos like your gf, sometimes it's best to start acting like a chump and make HER dump YOU. That way she won't be prone to doing things like stalking you, calling you non-stop, cutting the brakes on your car
eek: ). Hey, you'll have to swallow your pride, but she'll take it a lot better than YOU dumping HER. Just something to think about.
With psychos like your gf, sometimes it's best to start acting like a chump and make HER dump YOU. That way she won't be prone to doing things like stalking you, calling you non-stop, cutting the brakes on your car
eek: ). Hey, you'll have to swallow your pride, but she'll take it a lot better than YOU dumping HER. Just something to think about."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.