WRONG. BOTH men & women should care...and HERE'S WHY (read #2). Basically, young women (due to their physiology) are the highest risk group for contracting STDs and other subsequent problems down there...many often permanent.( . )( . ) said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
6 Signs She's Been Around
- Thread starter Luis_Rancagua
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Delta
Master Don Juan
taking a wild guess... you're religious right?
delta
delta
So do you suggest talking to them and finding out how many sex partners they've had, and if there sexual practices could have lead to spreading STDs? ...And actually expect them to tell you so.. and to tell the truth? Good luck!wayword said:
Well, I think all you can really do is cut your risks. Maybe ask for hardcopies of current test results including all the standard screens as well as herpes and HPV. Which many won't have though and also is not to say they couldn't have had sex after those tests. So, reality is that casual sex with girls (who are all slvts on average) these days IS Russian Roulette. This is a major reason why men used to only marry virgins and then expect each other to remain faithful (and no, I'm not Christian or church-going).SamePendo said:So do you suggest talking to them and finding out how many sex partners they've had, and if there sexual practices could have lead to spreading STDs? ...And actually expect them to tell you so.. and to tell the truth? Good luck!
So, you are right. If you read some of the posts here, you will see that there are a LOT of lies, denials and playing dumb with infected people. Can you trust your health to people with their own selfish interests at stake? Nope. People simply cannot be trusted. Especially when sex or relationships are on the line and they risk losing either for being honest...
I don't know what the answer is, but after having some close encounters with a diseased girl I'm a bit paranoid now. Fortunately I tested clean, but it was enough to scare me. I take this shyt a lot more seriously now and look for a lot more red flags...