WRONG. BOTH men & women should care...and HERE'S WHY (read #2). Basically, young women (due to their physiology) are the highest risk group for contracting STDs and other subsequent problems down there...many often permanent.( . )( . ) said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
6 Signs She's Been Around
- Thread starter Luis_Rancagua
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Delta
Master Don Juan
taking a wild guess... you're religious right?
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delta
So do you suggest talking to them and finding out how many sex partners they've had, and if there sexual practices could have lead to spreading STDs? ...And actually expect them to tell you so.. and to tell the truth? Good luck!wayword said:
Well, I think all you can really do is cut your risks. Maybe ask for hardcopies of current test results including all the standard screens as well as herpes and HPV. Which many won't have though and also is not to say they couldn't have had sex after those tests. So, reality is that casual sex with girls (who are all slvts on average) these days IS Russian Roulette. This is a major reason why men used to only marry virgins and then expect each other to remain faithful (and no, I'm not Christian or church-going).SamePendo said:So do you suggest talking to them and finding out how many sex partners they've had, and if there sexual practices could have lead to spreading STDs? ...And actually expect them to tell you so.. and to tell the truth? Good luck!
So, you are right. If you read some of the posts here, you will see that there are a LOT of lies, denials and playing dumb with infected people. Can you trust your health to people with their own selfish interests at stake? Nope. People simply cannot be trusted. Especially when sex or relationships are on the line and they risk losing either for being honest...
I don't know what the answer is, but after having some close encounters with a diseased girl I'm a bit paranoid now. Fortunately I tested clean, but it was enough to scare me. I take this shyt a lot more seriously now and look for a lot more red flags...