"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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6 Months Girlfriend... Do I still have it?

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I've been in a relationship for 6 months and am worried I might have lost some of my game... Here's the latest conversation I had with her. (by the way we are in high school).

(I call her around 10 pm, no answer so I hang up and leave no voicemail.)

She texts 5 minutes later

Her: on the phone with Whitney
(her best friend)
(No reply from me)
Her: Sorry
Me: This texting thing is giving me carpel tunnel... Call me
Her: I have to study for psych and Hughes:(
(these are classes we have tests in lol)
(no reply from me again)
Her: I'm sorry I'm sorry
Me: Sounds fun. Enjoy ;)
Her: Hahaha oh stop. I will..
Her: :)
(No reply from me)
Her: See you tomorrow?
Me: If you're lucky... Night ;)
Her: Night!
Me: Im afraid that wont do. Try again. :)
Her: Sorry haha
Her: Goodnight babe:)

Everything was great until my "If you're lucky".. I'm guessing I messed up by also saying good night there? That basically set her up for a short reply.. And I let that short reply get to me and ask for a better response.. Which she did...

Is my self-analysis correct? Just looking for some second opinions.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girlfriend in high school.... you know let me tell you something here. Im not old, im 19 and was in HS 2 year ago and I am glad I never had a girlfriend in HS. In high school girls are simply in a relationship for some benefit whether it would be to go to parties, free drinks, etc. Honestly, all girls in HS are really annoying, good god they complain about everything. I cant believe you put up with it.

If I knew now what I knew in HS, I would be better off. Even though my senior year I bounced from girl to girl every 2 weeks. Banged and left em, grantedi n HS you have to see them in the hall way but its easy to ignore .... real easy ;).

Sh1t highschool is easy and fun, enjoy it, stop worying about women now. If your over analyzing this then imagine when you get to college where the girls are even sluttier and will lead you on more.

Take it easy bud, seriously. Bounce around with different girls in HS, its a time where you find what you like sexually... seriously.
 
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Renegade357 said:
High school? Dump her and go play some football or something.
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Haha don't have to dump her our season finished yesterday!
 
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JohnChops said:
Take it easy bud, seriously. Bounce around with different girls in HS, its a time where you find what you like sexually... seriously.
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I see where you're coming from but I am enjoying the relationship. It started out as just another girl I was working on with my game but turned into this and it's been going pretty strong. I'm more looking for an analysis of the above text game... What can I do better?

I appreciate your advice though. I still have plenty of high school left.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright dude. I promise you your relationship will fail but this could be a good lesson for you. Two words for you to learn for the rest of your life. "light" and "funny" Figure out what that means and you'll have a chance with her. Well that is until you go to college and breakup anyway.
 
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AruIsMan said:
Everything was great until my "If you're lucky".. I'm guessing I messed up by also saying good night there? That basically set her up for a short reply.. And I let that short reply get to me and ask for a better response.. Which she did...

Is my self-analysis correct? Just looking for some second opinions.
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You were saying goodnight. English has a nice simple word that gets the point across, just use it and get off the phone.
You played this fine. No need to analyse everything.
 
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