"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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6 Months Girlfriend... Do I still have it?

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I've been in a relationship for 6 months and am worried I might have lost some of my game... Here's the latest conversation I had with her. (by the way we are in high school).

(I call her around 10 pm, no answer so I hang up and leave no voicemail.)

She texts 5 minutes later

Her: on the phone with Whitney
(her best friend)
(No reply from me)
Her: Sorry
Me: This texting thing is giving me carpel tunnel... Call me
Her: I have to study for psych and Hughes:(
(these are classes we have tests in lol)
(no reply from me again)
Her: I'm sorry I'm sorry
Me: Sounds fun. Enjoy ;)
Her: Hahaha oh stop. I will..
Her: :)
(No reply from me)
Her: See you tomorrow?
Me: If you're lucky... Night ;)
Her: Night!
Me: Im afraid that wont do. Try again. :)
Her: Sorry haha
Her: Goodnight babe:)

Everything was great until my "If you're lucky".. I'm guessing I messed up by also saying good night there? That basically set her up for a short reply.. And I let that short reply get to me and ask for a better response.. Which she did...

Is my self-analysis correct? Just looking for some second opinions.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend in high school.... you know let me tell you something here. Im not old, im 19 and was in HS 2 year ago and I am glad I never had a girlfriend in HS. In high school girls are simply in a relationship for some benefit whether it would be to go to parties, free drinks, etc. Honestly, all girls in HS are really annoying, good god they complain about everything. I cant believe you put up with it.

If I knew now what I knew in HS, I would be better off. Even though my senior year I bounced from girl to girl every 2 weeks. Banged and left em, grantedi n HS you have to see them in the hall way but its easy to ignore .... real easy ;).

Sh1t highschool is easy and fun, enjoy it, stop worying about women now. If your over analyzing this then imagine when you get to college where the girls are even sluttier and will lead you on more.

Take it easy bud, seriously. Bounce around with different girls in HS, its a time where you find what you like sexually... seriously.
 
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Renegade357 said:
High school? Dump her and go play some football or something.
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Haha don't have to dump her our season finished yesterday!
 
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JohnChops said:
Take it easy bud, seriously. Bounce around with different girls in HS, its a time where you find what you like sexually... seriously.
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I see where you're coming from but I am enjoying the relationship. It started out as just another girl I was working on with my game but turned into this and it's been going pretty strong. I'm more looking for an analysis of the above text game... What can I do better?

I appreciate your advice though. I still have plenty of high school left.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright dude. I promise you your relationship will fail but this could be a good lesson for you. Two words for you to learn for the rest of your life. "light" and "funny" Figure out what that means and you'll have a chance with her. Well that is until you go to college and breakup anyway.
 
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AruIsMan said:
Everything was great until my "If you're lucky".. I'm guessing I messed up by also saying good night there? That basically set her up for a short reply.. And I let that short reply get to me and ask for a better response.. Which she did...

Is my self-analysis correct? Just looking for some second opinions.
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You were saying goodnight. English has a nice simple word that gets the point across, just use it and get off the phone.
You played this fine. No need to analyse everything.
 
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