"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

Gray The Prince

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Zero Strikes

Blind one

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moarrplizz
Mr.Ballz
RedBear
JohnChops
GetBetter



Elminated
Chicksdigthelongball
Sofomore
MrMidnight




From here on out the challenges will get more and more difficult.

Make at least one number attempt from an HB this week. No email, no Facebook or any other social media. I wanna see some DIGITS! It does not matter how many you approach this week, so theoretically, you could make one approach, get the number and not approach anymore this week OR you could approach 100 HBS, chicken out or get denied 100 times and get elimnated though unless you look like quasimodo, chances are you'll get at least a handful of numbers out of 100 approaches lol. (And even then, Quasimodo would get some pity numbers or end up with an HB like he did in the Disney sequel.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RedBear

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On Tuesday I had a flight to another city, had a short chat with the girl that was sitting next to me before we had to part I proposed exchanging numbers. I've gotten a couple more numbers but I have to bounce :)
 

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Yea so my tourist girl has been texting...big whoop...shes flying back home anyway...

So whats the next challenge?
 

GetBetter

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Failed yet again. I have been going out but seeing only couples. I did approach few but as soon as I have asked the question(opener) I automatically eject.

Need a lot more practice..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mangotot

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I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?
 

Gray The Prince

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mangotot said:
I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?

Bingo.
 

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I almost forgot about that thread seeing as you and I were both busy. Needless to say I have a lot of approaching to do.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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