"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

Gray The Prince

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Zero Strikes

Blind one

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One Strike
moarrplizz
Mr.Ballz
RedBear
JohnChops
GetBetter



Elminated
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Sofomore
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From here on out the challenges will get more and more difficult.

Make at least one number attempt from an HB this week. No email, no Facebook or any other social media. I wanna see some DIGITS! It does not matter how many you approach this week, so theoretically, you could make one approach, get the number and not approach anymore this week OR you could approach 100 HBS, chicken out or get denied 100 times and get elimnated though unless you look like quasimodo, chances are you'll get at least a handful of numbers out of 100 approaches lol. (And even then, Quasimodo would get some pity numbers or end up with an HB like he did in the Disney sequel.)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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On Tuesday I had a flight to another city, had a short chat with the girl that was sitting next to me before we had to part I proposed exchanging numbers. I've gotten a couple more numbers but I have to bounce :)
 

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Yea so my tourist girl has been texting...big whoop...shes flying back home anyway...

So whats the next challenge?
 

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Failed yet again. I have been going out but seeing only couples. I did approach few but as soon as I have asked the question(opener) I automatically eject.

Need a lot more practice..
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?
 

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mangotot said:
I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?

Bingo.
 

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I almost forgot about that thread seeing as you and I were both busy. Needless to say I have a lot of approaching to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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