"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

Gray The Prince

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Okay, so you guys know I don't come around here much anymore, but after making a visit here, I have seen a lot of negative posts around here which prompted me to begin this year's Anti AA competition a bit earlier than usual.


For those of you new guys who don't know, I am GTP and I have been running the Anti AA competition for the last four years. Five years ago back when I was 18 and a College Freshman, I tied for 1st place in the original competition started by AAAgent. Due to the overwhelming success, the competition has become an annual thing.



Previous winners

2011- Four way Tie between Myself, Robyn, PrettyboyAJ and Deicide

2012- Roman81

2013- CoachD

2014- LeonSK



Previous competitions

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182041

2011 competion^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190530

2012 competiton^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202218

2013 competition^

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=212454

2014 competiton^



The rules have been the same for the last five years and they are:


1.) Veterans and past winners are allowed to participate but are ineligible to win. Self-explanatory rule and we all know who you are. However, if you want to post tips, encouragement, etc. PLEASE do so.

2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each task/objective. For example if the task starts on Monday then you must post by Sunday 11:59pm Pacific Time or you are eliminated.

3.) Encouragement and tips are highly encouraged as a means to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. Even though we have no way of knowing whether or not you are lying, just be a man and accept defeat. Failure is evident on the path to success.

6.) You are to get a phone number if the tasks call you to do so. E-Mail, Facebook, things that aren't phone numbers DO NOT count.
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We will do a two strikes rule. If you fail to meet an objective twice, you are eliminated from the competition no ifs ans or buts. As each round progresses, the tasks will become more and more difficult.


Any questions, comments or concerns, please PM me or post them in this thread. Good luck to you all.


Also if any past winners or veterans want to help with the competition feel free to PM me.

You have until Sunday, February 8th 11:59 pm Pacific Time to sign up for this competition.


Participants

JohnChops
GetBetter
Blind one
RedBear
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheException

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Gray The Prince said:
I have seen a lot of negative posts around here which prompted me to begin this year's Anti AA competition a bit earlier than usual.
Well.....yes. It's unfortunate, but the truth.

A damn shame this post has 0 replies!!! This is an actual pro masculine thread. Instead...you have masturbatory threads going on with endless vigorous debate(part of which I unfortunately get dragged into).

Let's go newcomers. Step up. Take part in something that will actually be beneficial.
 

Gray The Prince

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TheException said:
Well.....yes. It's unfortunate, but the truth.

A damn shame this post has 0 replies!!! This is an actual pro masculine thread. Instead...you have masturbatory threads going on with endless vigorous debate(part of which I unfortunately get dragged into).

Let's go newcomers. Step up. Take part in something that will actually be beneficial.
Yeah, I'm a bit dissapointed. In past years, the replies were in minutes. A lot of these new guys need this.
 

Gray The Prince

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JohnChops said:
Gray how have you been brotha?

I punked out when I entered two year go but I'm in thissss

I've been well, trying to graduate from my university and get into Law School. Alright, got your name down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GetBetter

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This should be fun and a much needed task. I am in a LDR and I need to meet new people now.

So, I would like to participate sir.
 

RedBear

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This seems like a lot of fun!
I've kind of followed the previous competition and the one before, but I was never on time for the inscription.

I'm going to do the challenges this year, so you can write me up :)
I've become a bit rusty so anything forcing me to go out is awesome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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om1xr

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I wish i was here 5 or 6 years ago to get in this. Approaching is a natural thing to me now and I haven't thought of it as approaching for years now.

It's a shame that there are only 4 participants. That tells you a lot about the posters here. Lack of balls and diving in comfort zones leading a mediocre life is their moto.
 

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I work in the middle of nowhere and rarely see people, let alone women. Wish I could join, sounds stimulating
 

GetBetter

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So when does this start?

I have already begun; taking some baby steps. Talking and initiating contact with gym trainers and some other people who come to the gym.

Approached 3 girls - asked for time to 1 girl, complimented another and she was smiling all the time and said thank you. The 3rd girl(2set) - I asked for good places to hang out. Had little conversation as well. Pretty happy with these results.

Will go out more. I really need to develop a great social circle as I am kind of lonely now; makes me feel like a loser.
 

Gray The Prince

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GetBetter said:
So when does this start?

I have already begun; taking some baby steps. Talking and initiating contact with gym trainers and some other people who come to the gym.

Approached 3 girls - asked for time to 1 girl, complimented another and she was smiling all the time and said thank you. The 3rd girl(2set) - I asked for good places to hang out. Had little conversation as well. Pretty happy with these results.

Will go out more. I really need to develop a great social circle as I am kind of lonely now; makes me feel like a loser.

Competition starts on Monday.


We need more people, come on guys, grows some balls and enter!
 

Sofomore

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I'm in. I'm sick of all these threads of people arguing over stupid sh!t. Lets do something positive around here.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Im in....can we please state what part of the world we stay in, cuz in all honesty if i was in florida party town i wouldnt shyt.

Big cities, rural, college town, etc....not that it matters, but can we please state the scenerio in wherein the exchange happened.


Plus....do we add a point if both parties exchanged numbers, or she got mine, i got hers, it was fake....or is that too much?
 

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_sideways_ said:
Im in....can we please state what part of the world we stay in, cuz in all honesty if i was in florida party town i wouldnt shyt.

Big cities, rural, college town, etc....not that it matters, but can we please state the scenerio in wherein the exchange happened.


Plus....do we add a point if both parties exchanged numbers, or she got mine, i got hers, it was fake....or is that too much?


All of that is fine. Feel free to include as many details as you like.
 

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I've been lurking around these boards for a while now but registered an account only to participate in this ! I really need something like this to gimme a push as I've been super busy with my exams and I haven't so much as spoken to a woman in 2015 -.-
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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