"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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5th annual Anti Approach Anxiety competition

Gray The Prince

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Zero Strikes

Blind one

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One Strike
moarrplizz
Mr.Ballz
RedBear
JohnChops
GetBetter



Elminated
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Sofomore
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From here on out the challenges will get more and more difficult.

Make at least one number attempt from an HB this week. No email, no Facebook or any other social media. I wanna see some DIGITS! It does not matter how many you approach this week, so theoretically, you could make one approach, get the number and not approach anymore this week OR you could approach 100 HBS, chicken out or get denied 100 times and get elimnated though unless you look like quasimodo, chances are you'll get at least a handful of numbers out of 100 approaches lol. (And even then, Quasimodo would get some pity numbers or end up with an HB like he did in the Disney sequel.)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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On Tuesday I had a flight to another city, had a short chat with the girl that was sitting next to me before we had to part I proposed exchanging numbers. I've gotten a couple more numbers but I have to bounce :)
 

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Yea so my tourist girl has been texting...big whoop...shes flying back home anyway...

So whats the next challenge?
 

GetBetter

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Failed yet again. I have been going out but seeing only couples. I did approach few but as soon as I have asked the question(opener) I automatically eject.

Need a lot more practice..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?
 

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mangotot said:
I have been doing my challenge because I missed out by entering late. I discovered that AA is very simple. If you have AA it means you don't have confidence. You take the steps to become confident and will get there. I became CONFIDENT. Mind you it took me years to get there, don't expect overnight success because that doesn't happen. Unless you are very normal person with no emotional baggage. If you were this type you would not be on a pickup forum.

Can anyone do this one last challenge?

Bingo.
 

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I almost forgot about that thread seeing as you and I were both busy. Needless to say I have a lot of approaching to do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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