"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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5'9 145lb too skinny?

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Hey guys,

My first post. I'm a 29y/o guy who started working out this year and went from 130lb to 145lb at ~11% body fat. But, I havnt seen much more success in dating. I know that 130lb is too skinny, but is 145lb also too skinny? What ideal body weight range should I aspire to look good but not too bulky?
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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depends on you , i know a guy who is 6'2" and weighs like 95lbs,now THAT is a skinny faggot. as for you, , i think you could do better,
i mean you are a man right? so maybe you could try to be bigger.

also i have found a bitter truth about bulking, it doesnt matter how bulky you are, you wont get laid if you dont approach.half my friends are bulked, but most of them are chumps. and me? i get the look a lot....but from the girl on the street which honestly i dont give a fvck about. it makes a difference in the bedroom department but meh...
 
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Agreed with Switch

I weigh more than my 1st Wingman (by 30lbs) he approaches more than me
But more 2nd Wingman weighs about 190lbs (mostly muscle) and he never approaches.
It all depends on your mental game. Size wont necessarily bring you more women but it will make you noticed more. And yes I know that theory contradicts itself but most women like a lean guy. But then again it depends upon the woman
 
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