“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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~$550 of unauthorized charges on my checking account (debit card)

Korrupt

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I called my bank headquarters and reported the ~$200 charge earlier this week. The lady on the other end said she disabled my debit card, and I would be getting a new one as well as a "dispute form" soon to dispute the charge and hopefully get my money back. The charge was made on 10/27.

Worse news...

I went back to september and saw a charge for ~$350 that was made on 9/09. I didn't see these charges because I was busy as all hell at the time and didn't check my online statement very often. Of course I see this on a sunday--when the bank isn't open.

God f*cking damnit...

Is there any chance of me getting my ~$550 back? It's been almost 3 weeks since the ~$200 charge and over 2 months since the ~$350 charge... Ugh. On top of this I've also been having some (embarrassing not deadly) health issues. When it rains it pours.

FVCK.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Yea, you can dispute it. Keep a better eye on your account. I check mine almost every day so stuff like this won't happen. Also get the app called Mint. It's similar to Intuit Quickbooks. You get to see how you spend your money and you can see Trends and Budgets. I know exactly how much I spend on everything every month.
 

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When this happened to me, the bank made me call the 800 number that the scammer listed as the merchant's number for the credit card charge. Mine were Microsoft and Planned Parenthood. They intentionally list huge companies that are difficult to deal with. The bank ended up refunding my money afterward.
 

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EXACTLY why I don't use my debit card nor checks. I only pay with credit cards.

- When people use your debit card for these charges (through theft), the money is gone until the Bank gets it back. That could take up to 30 days sometimes, if they are able to get it back at all.

- When you use cash and your wallet is stolen (or pick-pocketed), the money is gone until you sue the theft and take it back, in which you might as well just say it's gone.

When you use a credit card, you hit CHARGEBACK and the transaction comes off your amount "due".

I don't carry a debit card (destroyed it and told my Credit Union to not send me any), I don't carry checks, and the only vendors I use for my checking are those with ACH agreements but those are established companies like my landlord, student loan company, and insurance company.

Bottom line is that debit cards, checks and cash offer the LOWEST form of protection against theft and unauthorized charges.
 

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Don't shop with a debit card especially at gas stations. If crooks get your account number they can wipe out your entire bank account.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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