"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
53 year-old harridan is tired of "doing it myself"
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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More and more women
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Are rediscovering what wasn't cancelable "offense" to utter out loud, in the not-too-distant past
https://house.fandom.com/wiki/Dying_Changes_Everything Note the date that aired
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I think Nancy Pelosi is a great role-model for women that want it all - start her career with the intention of marrying a peer (or higher), then check out of the career while she has kids, and once the last one is 13, go back to the career, staying in that career for as long as she need to feel like she has had a "fulfilling" career. Too bad that American employers hate hiring older folks.More and more women
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Are rediscovering what wasn't cancelable "offense" to utter out loud, in the not-too-distant past
https://house.fandom.com/wiki/Dying_Changes_Everything Note the date that aired
Note the date this was recorded
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And a piss-poor one for anyone who wants to be a genuinely honorable and effective civil servant
All levity aside: While it's too late for those women who are die-hard converts to Woke Thought, younger women today still have a shot at dropping all that nonsense into a dumpster, then enjoying first-rate lives
Something similar happened at the end of The 20th Century: Chicks who'd bought into Feminist hookum hook, line, and stinker ended up the sort of gals explored in the writings of dissidents within The Women's Movement
The Heidi Chronicles - Wikipedia
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Whereas those who refused to buy into everything they heard, or were too young to be heavily poisoned, fared pretty well
*"Underlying much of the tension of The Heidi Chronicles is how success differs for men and women. Though it is known from the prologue of the first act that Heidi has a successful career as an art historian, the play focuses more on her success as a feminist and autonomous person; unlike the male characters, career success for Heidi does not equal a fulfilled life
As Heidi’s generation demanded, she became an independent woman in a male-dominated world. Yet this success seems hollow to Heidi near the end of the play. She hoped that feminism would provide solidarity with her fellow women and offer significance in society, but her reality has proven this false. Her women friends have bought into superficial happiness and material success: Susan Johnston changes identities frequently, going from an idealistic law student to a feminist to a Hollywood power broker; she ultimately becomes disenchanted with the feminist cause and insensitive to her friend’s problems. Heidi also has little luck with men, sustaining no real lasting relationships and ultimately having her life choices shaped by them. Only in her decision to adopt a child does Heidi achieve an independent success"
Wasserstein's heroine back in The 80s had the exact same revelation that chick who wrote the aforementioned tweet
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Are experiencing today, in other words
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Attraction is not a here and now choice. Having a feeling of being attracted to something is a reaction and a reflection of who you are. Don't blame women for not being attracted to you or other men.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Her political positions aside, she has done a very good job of merging a career with being a mother.And a piss-poor one for anyone who wants to be a genuinely honorable and effective civil servant
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Read the portion of my post which begins with the words "All levity aside..." That's where the discussion really becomes invigoratingHer political positions aside, she has done a very good job of merging a career with being a mother.