"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB_Hunter

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Looking with a questioning smile " There are plenty others waiting in line , what's makes you special ? Or

"Have We met before "
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Do I know you?!"


Either that or just laugh at her, then tell her to come sit on your lap.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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I love me too.

Gotta be lightly toned, though. A big proud grin on your face.. exagerated.
 

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Most of the responses are the same. In fact, they're boring. Is it how DJs operate these days? Repeating what other people say? "I know" "I love me too".

In fact they're overused that even the girl has heard them before.

Try this:

Thanks......but you still have to pay for those Pringles.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Where the hell is the answer? We are way past 10 posts!
 

RoeCyris

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Originally posted by *29*
Most of the responses are the same. In fact, they're boring. Is it how DJs operate these days? Repeating what other people say?
Repeating what other people say? DID YOU READ THE ORIGINAL POST? he said say what you would say without reading what other people said. Obviously you ignored that and read everyone's response then posted.
 

Dingus

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LOL

It's like the test you often get in High School that says "Put your name in the top right corner and don't put anything else. You're done with this test."

80% of the class takes the whole test because they didn't read the instructions...
 

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That dumb thing? I thought that was stupid, because every teacher would do that, at the beginning of every year. I would ask "Is this the test where I only have to put my name at the top of the paper?"
 

DJnoob

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So, this HB 8.5 Turned to me said " I love you Winston " REALLY LOUD and her other girl co worker was nearby probably wanting to hear what I would say after that remark because I know they talk about me there.

So this was my response:

"now is not the time" (as I was moving around looking for stuff looking all busy)

Then she cracks up and repeats what I said and said that was funny then giggles after that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I love you too (a name that is not hers).
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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