"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Setting: Workplace with a girl you have been using C&F with

Right when you come into the workplace cute chick looks at you and she says this: (5 seconds to reply to this in your head and start typing. If you go over 5 seconds, consider the game over)


Hot chick: "I LOVE YOU [insert your name here]"


WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE: .....




I'll tell you mine after 10 posts and how she reacted to it.

+++DO NOT SCROLL DOWN AND READ OTHER PEOPLE'S POSTS YET, ONLY AFTER YOU POST A REPLY+++
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DJnoob
Setting: Workplace with girl you have been using C&F with

Right when you come into the workplace cute chick looks at you and she says this: (5 seconds to reply to this in your head any type. If you go over 5 seconds, consider the game over)


Hot chick: "I LOVE YOU [insert your name here]"


WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE: .....


I'll tell you mine after 10 posts and how she reacted to it.
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I love you more!
 
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"you should"

"now kiss me"
 
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Love is a big word, lets discuss this later, I feel we definitely have chemistry.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whoops? ... blah!

"I love me too;)"

DJnoob said:

+++DO NOT SCROLL DOWN AND READ OTHER PEOPLE'S POSTS YET, ONLY AFTER YOU POST A REPLY+++
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Whoops... M.F... agreed:rolleyes: ;)


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm hungry, let's get something to eat.
 
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your not the only one!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha hey don't get so carried away.
 
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::smiles::
::turns girl around, bends her over, and sticks it in:::
"i'm loving you toooooAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHH!!"
 
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smooth or not what i would do is propably just laugh and keep walking
 
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"youre not telling me anything i dont already know."
or "yea ok...."
Both pretty simple, and both came up in less than 5 seconds
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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