"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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5 Months of No Contact

bigneil

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The one girl I'll never get over losing. My cat. I had her for 12 years, since I turned 30. We traveled 13,000 miles together, visiting 33 states, and she was always in arms reach and never made a peep. What other woman would have endured such a journey (which was required for my career path). The funniest part is she was an outdoor cat. Even in hotels I'd let her out the window and she'd always return. She went out March 1 and never came home.

My aunt was a psychologist and she said that a cat is the most feminine creature of all, even a male cat but especially a female cat (a Horse is the most masculine, hence they say women who love horses and men who love cats are a lost cause).

Truth be told, it was that cat that taught me how to treat a lady, and how to be gentle. She'd maul me otherwise. She had the purest female aura I ever knew, and I realize now that I never loved any girl as much that cat (pretty pathetic I suppose). Though the love for a dog is probably similar. I wonder if anyone can relate.

Those who are lonely might consider adopting a pet from the shelter. I think they comfort us in ways that others can perceive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamTheHobit

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The thing I like about my dog is that he doesn't judge me.. No matter how fvcked up I am.
 

Poonani Maker

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nevermind..just realized this was about a Real cat and not a personification of a real woman
 

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I have my pet a dog, she is quiet and do what I tell her :p

but about the part of when you aer alone you should get a pet.... I remember that EP of house when Wilson tryed to get a cat and what house said :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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