"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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5 Months of No Contact

bigneil

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The one girl I'll never get over losing. My cat. I had her for 12 years, since I turned 30. We traveled 13,000 miles together, visiting 33 states, and she was always in arms reach and never made a peep. What other woman would have endured such a journey (which was required for my career path). The funniest part is she was an outdoor cat. Even in hotels I'd let her out the window and she'd always return. She went out March 1 and never came home.

My aunt was a psychologist and she said that a cat is the most feminine creature of all, even a male cat but especially a female cat (a Horse is the most masculine, hence they say women who love horses and men who love cats are a lost cause).

Truth be told, it was that cat that taught me how to treat a lady, and how to be gentle. She'd maul me otherwise. She had the purest female aura I ever knew, and I realize now that I never loved any girl as much that cat (pretty pathetic I suppose). Though the love for a dog is probably similar. I wonder if anyone can relate.

Those who are lonely might consider adopting a pet from the shelter. I think they comfort us in ways that others can perceive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SamTheHobit

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The thing I like about my dog is that he doesn't judge me.. No matter how fvcked up I am.
 

Poonani Maker

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nevermind..just realized this was about a Real cat and not a personification of a real woman
 

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I have my pet a dog, she is quiet and do what I tell her :p

but about the part of when you aer alone you should get a pet.... I remember that EP of house when Wilson tryed to get a cat and what house said :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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