5 love languages

[The Duke]

Have any of you ever used this to explain differences in relationships?
For those that are unfamiliar, its basically a questionaire that pinpoints the different languages of love that you communicate with. For example their are 5 languages......acts of service, receiving gifts, words of affirmation, physical touch, and quality time that people exhibit and expect from others when showing love.

I've done it with about every chic I've dated for any considerable length of time. When problems came up, this tool made it a lot easier to understand.

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/

 

[sageproduct]

Just took the test.

One of my best friends told me about the 5 love languages once. Funny, she and I scored the highest in the same category.

So you actually get your girlfriend to take this test with you?

 

[The Duke]

So you actually get your girlfriend to take this test with you?

lol....well....The first time I mentioned it she was a little nervous, a few weeks later I had her take the test. When we talked about the results and saw the differences, she was highly upset and paranoid.

Looking back, if I am with a girl who can't appreciate the value of the analysis, I am jumping ship as fast as I can. I also think your more successful relationships will have be those where both parties speak similar languages.