"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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5 love languages

The Duke

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Have any of you ever used this to explain differences in relationships?
For those that are unfamiliar, its basically a questionaire that pinpoints the different languages of love that you communicate with. For example their are 5 languages......acts of service, receiving gifts, words of affirmation, physical touch, and quality time that people exhibit and expect from others when showing love.

I've done it with about every chic I've dated for any considerable length of time. When problems came up, this tool made it a lot easier to understand.

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Just took the test.

One of my best friends told me about the 5 love languages once. Funny, she and I scored the highest in the same category.

So you actually get your girlfriend to take this test with you?
 

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sageproduct said:
So you actually get your girlfriend to take this test with you?
lol....well....The first time I mentioned it she was a little nervous, a few weeks later I had her take the test. When we talked about the results and saw the differences, she was highly upset and paranoid.

Looking back, if I am with a girl who can't appreciate the value of the analysis, I am jumping ship as fast as I can. I also think your more successful relationships will have be those where both parties speak similar languages.
 
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