Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Fly-err

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Prom's coming up this weekend and me and my friend decided to take things a little bit differently. One of our friends hooked us up with two of her friends that we've never met, only seen her picture and phone number. So its almost like a blind date. I told her first that she had to be hot for me to follow through with this and fellas, she is a babe. So I'm wondering how would you make this night worth it to pick her up in lets say 5 hours. Prom goes from 8 to 12 and after party till like 3 or 4.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eaglez1177

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Fly-err said:
Prom's coming up this weekend and me and my friend decided to take things a little bit differently. One of our friends hooked us up with two of her friends that we've never met, only seen her picture and phone number. So its almost like a blind date. I told her first that she had to be hot for me to follow through with this and fellas, she is a babe. So I'm wondering how would you make this night worth it to pick her up in lets say 5 hours. Prom goes from 8 to 12 and after party till like 3 or 4.
Just be yourself, have fun, dont get all nervous if shes hot, dance with her, hook up, etc.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Just be yourself, have fun, dont get all nervous if shes hot, dance with her, hook up, etc.
Yeah so far thats what I'm going with. Going around scouting a few places to 'kick back' later.
 

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Always be honest with her. To win a girl you need to be someone she can talk to, but talking doesn't do any good when you reply with a lie.
 

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I was bouncing a Highschool grad after party a few days ago. First of all I wouldn't touch anything there, and second I was working, but it was a pretty eye opening experience.

my advice is just MAKE A MOVE. you are almost guarenteed. I let out about 8 or nine couples because they "felt like taking a walk" I even saw this skinny kid at the end of the night walk up to some girl waiting for a cab, talk to her for a couple of sec, lean in and put his arm on her back and I thought to myself "no chance in hell" but he stopped her mid sentance, pecked her on the lips then made her continue talking, 20 sec later Making out, they left together.

Honestly, JUST MAKE MOVE. do it relatively early in the night because if it fails, you WILL HAVE so many more opportunities.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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