"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fly-err

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Prom's coming up this weekend and me and my friend decided to take things a little bit differently. One of our friends hooked us up with two of her friends that we've never met, only seen her picture and phone number. So its almost like a blind date. I told her first that she had to be hot for me to follow through with this and fellas, she is a babe. So I'm wondering how would you make this night worth it to pick her up in lets say 5 hours. Prom goes from 8 to 12 and after party till like 3 or 4.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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eaglez1177

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Fly-err said:
Prom's coming up this weekend and me and my friend decided to take things a little bit differently. One of our friends hooked us up with two of her friends that we've never met, only seen her picture and phone number. So its almost like a blind date. I told her first that she had to be hot for me to follow through with this and fellas, she is a babe. So I'm wondering how would you make this night worth it to pick her up in lets say 5 hours. Prom goes from 8 to 12 and after party till like 3 or 4.
Just be yourself, have fun, dont get all nervous if shes hot, dance with her, hook up, etc.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Just be yourself, have fun, dont get all nervous if shes hot, dance with her, hook up, etc.
Yeah so far thats what I'm going with. Going around scouting a few places to 'kick back' later.
 

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Always be honest with her. To win a girl you need to be someone she can talk to, but talking doesn't do any good when you reply with a lie.
 

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I was bouncing a Highschool grad after party a few days ago. First of all I wouldn't touch anything there, and second I was working, but it was a pretty eye opening experience.

my advice is just MAKE A MOVE. you are almost guarenteed. I let out about 8 or nine couples because they "felt like taking a walk" I even saw this skinny kid at the end of the night walk up to some girl waiting for a cab, talk to her for a couple of sec, lean in and put his arm on her back and I thought to myself "no chance in hell" but he stopped her mid sentance, pecked her on the lips then made her continue talking, 20 sec later Making out, they left together.

Honestly, JUST MAKE MOVE. do it relatively early in the night because if it fails, you WILL HAVE so many more opportunities.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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