5 good reasons women ignore men

[CornbreadFed]

TLDW

1). You lack a sense of purpose or story

2). Neglect Personal Hygiene & Care- I noticed the difference between these habits in European (exclude the brits) men vs American men. European men mostly were all well-groomed, polished, and put together while most American men look like homeless slobs or at best effort gym attire.

3). You are boring AF

4 ). You are out of shape aka fat- I am putting looks into this point btw.

5). You lack social proof- From a man's perspective, it is hard to understand the importance of this. However, if you view it from the female's perspective then it makes a lot of sense. Women do not want to get completely tricked in to dating a dangerous or boring man, so they need the social proof aka good reviews to verify men.

IMHO, you do not need all 5 of these going for you to finally attract women. However, I do think they should be ranked from most to least important. As a result, you can have one or a few of these but still be decent with women or you could only have 1 and feel like this topic is a waste of time.

Point 4 > Point 3 > Point 2 > Point 5 > Point 1... I have seen women completely ignore the last 2 points for guys with the first 2 points

 

[BackInTheGame78]

The only thing that matters is they aren't interested and it can be for any reason or no reason.

While there are plenty of things you can do to increase your value and health in this regard, there will still be plenty of women that aren't interested

 

[Manure Spherian]

IMHO, you do not need all 5 of these going for you to finally attract women

Good. Because I’m boring.

 

[CornbreadFed]

The only thing that matters is they aren't interested and it can be for any reason or no reason.

While there are plenty of things you can do to increase your value and health in this regard, there will still be plenty of women that aren't interested

Yeah, but you aren't doing yourself any favors talking to women without any marketing presentation or strategy. There might be interest there, but you killed it by looking like a slob, acting shy, and only talking about Andrew Tate and Alt Right Tradconism politics during the date.

 

[SW15]

1). You lack a sense of purpose or story

2). Neglect Personal Hygiene & Care- I noticed the difference between these habits in European (exclude the brits) men vs American men. European men mostly were all well-groomed, polished, and put together while most American men look like homeless slobs or at best effort gym attire.

3). You are boring AF

4 ). You are out of shape aka fat- I am putting looks into this point btw.

5). You lack social proof- From a man's perspective, it is hard to understand the importance of this. However, if you view it from the female's perspective then it makes a lot of sense. Women do not want to get completely tricked in to dating a dangerous or boring man, so they need the social proof aka good reviews to verify men.

IMHO, you do not need all 5 of these going for you to finally attract women. However, I do think they should be ranked from most to least important. As a result, you can have one or a few of these but still be decent with women or you could only have 1 and feel like this topic is a waste of time.

Point 4 > Point 3 > Point 2 > Point 5 > Point 1... I have seen women completely ignore the last 2 points for guys with the first 2 points

Point 4 is the most damaging. If a man's looks aren't on point, then he will struggle in the mating market. This content creator cites "out of shape" or "fat" as a reason. He's mainly going after what Wheat Waffles would call Sub 5 men.

Men in the 5-7.4 range can even get ignored by women despite not being out of shape/fat. A 5 is more likely to be ignored than a 7 or even 7.5.

The upper echelon of men in looks are well positioned.

I think Point 2 is more damaging than Point 3. Point 2 is part of Looks, which makes more than Point 3, a part of Personality.

My order of most damaging to least damaging is...

Point 4
Point 2
Point 3
Point 5
Point 1

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeah, but you aren't doing yourself any favors talking to women without any marketing presentation or strategy. There might be interest there, but you killed it by looking like a slob, acting shy, and only talking about Andrew Tate and Alt Right Tradconism politics during the date.

I mean that's fair, but that is simply about having some sort of social tact and acuity.

 

[BadBoy89]

So much theory on this website; everyone is an expert on women, starting threads on “you can’t get women because of x, y, z”. Yet no one posts successful field reports.

Point 1. Wrong. So if the guy is rich and spends like crazy on her, she won’t be with him because he has no “purpose”?

Point 2. Wrong. I’ve slept with 8/10s with clothes bought from Costco:

Point 3. Wrong. So a man is supposed to be a clown and entertain the woman?

Point 4. Wrong. My friend is fat, is a Salsa teacher. Gets the hottest women.

Point 5. Wrong. James Bond needs social proof? I would say social proof is bad, then she knows you are nice safe guy.

All points debunked and are wrong .

 

[Travel memoir21]

 

[SW15]

Yet no one posts successful field reports.

@nicksaiz65 and @BPH post successful field reports.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Yet no one posts successful field reports.

How about you post one then. Most active posters on this board in LTRs or married.