"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction

zekko

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I notice the book 48 Laws of Power keeps getting mentioned a lot on this and other "dating" forums. I was wondering if someone could explain to me why this is? After all, it isn't really a book on seducing women. Is it simply because power is sexy? Or that knowing how to manipulate helps with seduction? Or it is just because it was written by Robert Greene, who also wrote The Art of Seduction?

I did buy this book (48 Laws of Power) because it looked interesting. I am about to start reading it. I'll probably pick up The Art of Seduction as well. But I'd like to know what connection it has to the seduction community, so I can get more out of it when I read it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Actually, it's a book which talks about ways to attain power. It can be used in seduction and preaches many of the rules we state here on SS. I definitely think you should read it if you haven't yet.

-SchoolBoy​
 

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I haven't read the entire book but after reading everyones comments on it and glancing over it, I believe it is mostly historical examples on how to attain power. Yea he backs up with ancient rulers who conquered, but how much of that is useful for todays society? Mostly theoretical but what isn't on these boards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Secret is more about the right frame of mind, getting you to attain that Positive Mental Attitude to achieve the things you want. 48 laws of power is more like how a certain person from long ago used a specific "Power" to attain their goals. But they don't really tell you how to build up to getting that power.
 

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Sandow, he talks about principles and how they can be applied in all situations. Human nature has not changed over the short amount of time we have been recording history. Test them, and they WILL work. Plus, I can't remember if he did in 48 Laws, but in other books of his like 33 Strategies of War and 50th Law (which is a decent book btw, and generally in tune with what is preached over on this forum), he references more recent figures like Hitchcock, Warhol, Joan Crawford, Roosevelt, and others
 
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