"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction

zekko

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I notice the book 48 Laws of Power keeps getting mentioned a lot on this and other "dating" forums. I was wondering if someone could explain to me why this is? After all, it isn't really a book on seducing women. Is it simply because power is sexy? Or that knowing how to manipulate helps with seduction? Or it is just because it was written by Robert Greene, who also wrote The Art of Seduction?

I did buy this book (48 Laws of Power) because it looked interesting. I am about to start reading it. I'll probably pick up The Art of Seduction as well. But I'd like to know what connection it has to the seduction community, so I can get more out of it when I read it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Actually, it's a book which talks about ways to attain power. It can be used in seduction and preaches many of the rules we state here on SS. I definitely think you should read it if you haven't yet.

-SchoolBoy​
 

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I haven't read the entire book but after reading everyones comments on it and glancing over it, I believe it is mostly historical examples on how to attain power. Yea he backs up with ancient rulers who conquered, but how much of that is useful for todays society? Mostly theoretical but what isn't on these boards.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Secret is more about the right frame of mind, getting you to attain that Positive Mental Attitude to achieve the things you want. 48 laws of power is more like how a certain person from long ago used a specific "Power" to attain their goals. But they don't really tell you how to build up to getting that power.
 

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Sandow, he talks about principles and how they can be applied in all situations. Human nature has not changed over the short amount of time we have been recording history. Test them, and they WILL work. Plus, I can't remember if he did in 48 Laws, but in other books of his like 33 Strategies of War and 50th Law (which is a decent book btw, and generally in tune with what is preached over on this forum), he references more recent figures like Hitchcock, Warhol, Joan Crawford, Roosevelt, and others
 
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