"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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48 Laws Of Game – #2: Never Put Too Much Trust In Friends, Learn How To Use Enemies

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Copied from my blog, A Dark Heart


I'm going through and removing the body text of these posts as it's causing duplicate content issues with my blog (and here). I also don't want to spam the entire Tips Section, so moving forward I'll make compilation posts when appropriate. I'm glad you all enjoy my writing, I feel it's time to give back.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I enjoy your posts on the laws MM, regarding this though...

"And as for taking relationship advice from women – don’t. Exceptions notwithstanding, when it comes to matters of the heart men should heed the wisdom of other men, particular those with more experience in said matters. "

Id say only seek the wisdom of those who have success and experience with women. listening to some men you may as well listen to women! some awful advice going around.

regarding friends, I reallytrust very few people, they all have their own agenda and most friendships are at best transactional, the really true friendships were you have someone who is prepared to bail you out at the blink of an eye for no compensation other than the fact the respect is mutual, are few and far between.
 
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This is from the 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. It's great book. I like that you are applying it to game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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